Play the Matchmaker Monday Dear Debra video: This video is an expansion of the Monica's question from a few weeks about how to get the attention of a man she would like to get to know better. Monica's question was I really like a guy that is part of the local senior center. He lost his wife a year ago and I lost my husband about the same … [Read more...] about Video: How Do I Get His Attention?
Dating Advice
Questions answered and tips from Debra L'Heureux for those seeking their own love story.
Video: How do I Date in this Time of Social Distancing?
Play the Matchmaker Monday Dear Debra video: This video is an expansion of the George's question from a few weeks ago his worry about dating in the time of Covid-19: George's question was "I started dating an amazing lady one month ago and now with the social distancing, I am not able to see her. I am so upset about this and quite … [Read more...] about Video: How do I Date in this Time of Social Distancing?
Video: I do not feel attractive anymore…
Play the Matchmaker Monday Dear Debra video: This video is an expansion of the Gloria's question from a few weeks ago about not feeling attractive. Gloria's question was "My husband passed away a year ago and I have been very sad about his passing. I was married for 35 years. More than that, I do not feel attractive any more and feel … [Read more...] about Video: I do not feel attractive anymore…
Video: How do I start meeting women again?
Play the Matchmaker Monday Dear Debra video: This video is an expansion of Barry's question from a few weeks ago about how to start dating again. Barry's question was "I am recently divorced and want to start meeting women again. I am painfully shy and a bit introverted. Where do I begin? Thank you for your advice!" … [Read more...] about Video: How do I start meeting women again?
Video: How Do I Pick Out My Clothes For A Date?
Play the Matchmaker Monday Dear Debra video: This video is an expansion of the Bill's question from a few months ago about picking out clothes for a date. Bill's question was "My wife always picked out my clothes and now that she is gone….honestly I am lost! I want to start casually dating but I don’t where to begin to pick out an outfit … [Read more...] about Video: How Do I Pick Out My Clothes For A Date?
How do I start meeting women again?
Dear Debra, I am recently divorced and want to start meeting women again. I am painfully shy and a bit introverted. Where do I begin? Thank you for your advice! Best Regards, Barry Warren, RI Dear Barry, I know that being divorced is not easy as the social circle that you had may not exist any more. Many of your friends may still be … [Read more...] about How do I start meeting women again?
I do not feel attractive any more…
Dear Debra, My husband passed away a year ago and I have been very sad about his passing. I was married for 35 years. More than that, I do not feel attractive any more and feel frumpy and not contemporary. Where do I begin? Thank you for your assistance. Regards, Gloria Bristol, Rhode Island Dear Gloria, Thank you for reaching out … [Read more...] about I do not feel attractive any more…
I am emotionally paralyzed…
Dear Debra, I lost my wife one year ago and I feel like I can’t move forward. I spend so much time in my rocking chair and at times I seem like I am emotionally paralyzed. I feel hopeless. Please give me some advice. Regards, Larry Barrington, RI Dear Larry, Losing a spouse is one of the most difficult passages a person needs to go … [Read more...] about I am emotionally paralyzed…